Being You

What if you don’t have to find the “real you”?

May 20, 2021

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Dr. Dain Heer

Access Consciousness® Co-Creator

Dr. Dain Heer is a facilitator of consciousness and change, inviting people worldwide to embrace their true greatness, abilities and knowing.

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How often have you been at a crossroads in life, feeling like you’re living inauthentically, and that if you could just get back to the “real you”, things would be easier?

Here’s a controversial opinion (you know I don’t shy away from those!):

What if there is no “real” you?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Being you isn’t about defining what you aren’t, or being the real you.

That’s because you are too big to be defined!

Deciding who you ‘really’ are, and trying to BE that – looking, acting and talking a certain way – isn’t really being you at all. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

When you try to think about what makes you what you are, where do you even begin?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

You’re an infinite being, and you exist without limits. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Your differences are the secret sauce to what’s right about being you.

You are able to choose to be you every day – you’re already being you, and there is no ‘real’ you waiting to be discovered.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Are you willing to be completely undefined?⠀


international being you day

Consider this your invitation to the first annual International Being You Day on May 22. Created for you to celebrate You.



  • To empower all of us to know that our dreams of what is possible are way more valuable than fitting in.
  • To invite everyone to embrace their unique capacities and get away from comparison and judgment as deciding factors for happiness.

  • To inspire all of us to use lightness, joy, and laughter as their guide to who they can choose to be, instead of all the should-and-should-nots of our age, race, cultures, and families.

Discover, explore and create with Dr. Dain Heer on International Being You Day here. www.Beingyouday.com



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