Irreverent, revealing, naughty. Welcome to Dr. Dain Heer and Gary Douglas’s world on sex and relationship!

There are very few people on the planet who are willing to talk candidly about all aspects of sex and relationship. That makes “Sex and Relationship: the best or the worst of realities?” show on Voice America’s Conversations in Consciousness definitely worth listening to.

It is sure to make you laugh, cry — and transform your reality.

Have you decided that you’re too old for unbridled sex? Or is the memory of a miscarriage still lingering and affecting your sex life? Do you keep attracting the same type of person in relationship over and over again? Have you been told you’re afraid of commitment?

These were all questions asked on the show that allowed Gary and Dain to clear limitations and fixed points of view, and create more freedom and ease in people’s lives.

“Everybody has this idea that they need to fix and solve their problem,” Dain pointed out. “And the way to fix and solve their problem is by going into the wrongness so deeply, so they can find out why they’re wrong, except all they get is the fact that they’re wrong!”

Is it possible that your “problem” actually belongs to someone else?

Dain explained, “If, when your dad went to have sex, your mum put up all these walls and barriers, as a little kid you’d perceive it. Or if…one of your friends talked to you about having sex and they hated bodies, you’d also perceive the energy. What happens is you perceive it so dynamically you think it’s yours. And none of it is.”

What if you’re not wrong and bad — even if you don’t want to have a relationship? What if it’s all just a choice?

Gary & Dain also discussed that to have sex and relationship be joyful and fun and ease for you, the key is not to make anything significant.

“How many of you have made your relationships so significant you don’t want it anymore?” Gary queried. “If you make them significant you’re always stuck.”

You can dive in for more and listen to the full show HERE.

Gary & Dain host a regular show on Voice America every Thursday at 2pm Pacific.

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