On a recent Access Consciousness radio show on Voice America with Gary Douglas and Dr Dain Heer, they discussed the idea people have that there is a perfect person out there for them; their Prince Charming or Princess Perfect.

Gary Douglas states, “There are very few princes in the world but lots of frogs!”

As Dr Dain Heer says, “For a lot of people the fairy tale looms large in their universe” and Gary and Dain go on to discuss how people buy into the expectations of this reality, including finding your prince or princess, getting married and having children. You don’t have to get married. You don’t have to have a prince. You don’t have to do anything. If you enjoy your alone time, then be alone. If you don’t like men, try women. Gary added, “Until you try something you can’t make a proper choice.”

You need to be honest with yourself rather than buying into the fairy tale. If you don’t like men, for example, you can’t get a ‘nice, handsome man’; it just doesn’t work that way. Gary says “You’ve have to be willing to receive what you can get”. He had a friend who said she wanted a handsome man in her life, but she wasn’t letting him in. If you would like to have a partner in your life, you need to ask for one that works for you.

How many of you are avoiding being the Prince Charming and Princess Perfect in your life?

Or trying to be the opposite – Prince Charming when you are a woman and Princess Perfect when you are a man, because that’s what you think you want, but is not who you are?

And once the fairy tale has been met and you are married or in a long term relationship, Dr. Dain Heer goes on to say that we get settled and stop creating the relationship. What else is possible? Is it time to forego the fairy tale and be true to you and live again?

To listen to Gary and Dain talk about relationships from all angles, including intimate relationships, business relationships, sex, beauty, struggle, love and hate, invalidation, judgment and other insanities of relationship, click HERE to listen to this totally honest and irreverent replay!

Gary & Dain host a regular show on Voice America every Thursday at 2pm Pacific.

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