People around the world are getting excited about a new possibility that has shown up. They are not wrong!!

“What do you mean?” I hear you ask. “What ever I do I am wrong!” And 5 years ago I would have said the same thing. I was always trying to be someone else or live up to someone elses expectations and projections of what a Good Mother was or a clever daughter or a successful business person.

So what changed? Not the people that were projecting and expecting! I did.

I changed my need for approval.

I changed my desire to fit in.

I became more of ME everyday and I continue to.

One of the phenomenal tools I used in this process is the Access Consciousness tool “Who does this belong to?” for every thought feeling and emotion that came up. I really love the way Dr Dain Heer teaches this tool in this video.

How does this tool get you out of the wrongness of you? Whenever you are aware of a thought of something could be done better, its not good enough, you shouldn’t have done that, ask “Who does that belong to?” and see if it lightens up at all or goes away. If it does return it all to sender with consciousness attached.

The really cool thing is you don’t even need to know who it belonged to in the first place or where it came from! The tool works.